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Copyright 2005 Gobala Krishnan
"How can I teach others when I am not successful myself? That's
ethically wrong..."
If you're in an MLM program, you might have heard that question
from one of your affiliates. You may even have asked the same
question before. I know I have, and I get it all the time too
from people in my group.
Many people say this when I mention to them that a big part of
being in an MLM program is to help others "duplicate" your
efforts. Teach them to fish, instead of giving them the fish. If
your affiliates are not able to duplicate your efforts, at least
to a certain degree, it will be very hard to see real
exponential growth in your organization. So is it wrong to teach
someone when you're not "up there" yourself?
Well, it really depends on WHAT you're teaching them.
My father thought me to ride the bicycle, and I have thought
others to ride the bicycle. My father was not an Olympic
cyclist; he was simply teaching me what he knew. Nothing more,
nothing less. And to this very day, I appreciate him for it, for
otherwise I would never learn something as easy and as fun as
that.
So teaching others what you know is perfectly OK! It's human
nature to teach. Whether you realize it or not, you do it all
the time, with family members, friends and spouses.
Here's what I consider ethically wrong...
It's wrong to teach people how to be an Olympic cyclist, when
you're not an Olympic champion yourself. It's common sense,
right? You cannot teach someone to reach the top of the mountain
if you have not shed tears and blood to get up there yourself.
Doing otherwise IS unethical, for you're only leading someone
down the wrong road.
So even if you have been in MLM for only one day, always
remember that you DO have something to teach your downline
affiliates. Simply sharing your experience, in most cases, is
more than enough. Tell them what you like about the company, the
products, the opportunity, etc. Tell them the truth about what
you feel.
If the question is technical in nature or beyond your expertise,
please say so to your affiliates, and refer the affiliate to
your upline leaders, corporate support, websites, or online
forums for more information. There is nothing wrong in showing
them where they can get more info if you can't provide that info
yourself.
This is ok... after all, network marketing is supposed to be all
about teamwork, right?
Don't recommend anything you've not personally tried yourself.
Don't teach anything you're not sure about. Don't make up
stories. Don't fake the figures. Don't fake your emotions. Don’t
give false hope.
Most importantly, don't doubt the relevance and significance of
your own knowledge. Confucius said that "If three men walk with
me, one can be my teacher". We can all learn from each other,
and thinking otherwise is a mistake. It’s only your way of
thinking that stops you from sharing and touching another human
being in a sincere way. And you’ll need to change that in order
to be successful in MLM.
You cannot, and probably should not, teach someone about the
road ahead of you, no matter how many books you’ve read, and how
many seminars you’ve attended. However, you can always look back
at the road behind you and teach them how to get to where you
are.
So share your knowledge with everyone if your team. There is
always something that they can learn from you, and there is
always a way you can help them to duplicate your efforts.
How many have you helped this week...?
About the author:
Gobala Krishnan is a member and a writer for the International
Association of Home Business Entrepreneurs, the perfect
knowledge tool for network marketers to train and grow their
organization. Visit his site at
http://www.home-business-association.com/IAHBE to get more info.
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